The Her Story: Forget the Numbers, Build the Relationships

Headline:
The Sleep Habit Sleep Experts Secretly Break (and Why It Might Surprise You)

Opening:
What if the people who teach us about sleep can’t always follow their own advice? Get ready for a candid look behind the scenes of the sleep industry as BedGear’s Nicole Coschignano confesses the habits she preaches—but doesn’t always practice.

Why “Having It All” Isn’t the Goal
Nicole starts with a refreshing admission: even for a senior player development specialist, “having it all” is a myth. Chasing perfection, she argues, can lead to complacency. Instead, she’s always striving—both personally and professionally—for the next chapter, with growth as her north star.

The Truth About Sleep Routines (Even for the Pros)
When asked which sleep tip she publicly recommends but privately breaks, Nicole laughs: “Using all the features of my adjustable base.” Despite knowing the benefits, she often skips zero-gravity mode, opting for the simple pleasure of collapsing into bed after a long day. Her honesty is a powerful reminder that even experts are human.

She also reveals her real bedtime routine: a new favorite recliner (with massage and heat, of course), a quick shower, and then—out like a light. Nicole’s ability to sleep anywhere (even on a speaker in a Miami club) is enviable, but she admits her habits aren’t picture-perfect. And that’s exactly the point.

Redefining Success and Leadership in Sleep Retail
Nicole’s definition of success has evolved from financial milestones to the quality of her relationships. After years working for every major mattress brand—from Mattress Firm to Sleep Number, Cerda, Macy’s, and now BedGear—she’s learned that trust, authenticity, and people matter most.

Leadership, for her, is no longer about “follow the rules and stay quiet.” It’s about building buy-in, trust, and supporting others to succeed. She credits BedGear’s culture for letting her be herself and sees her role as a “big sister” on the sleep coach team.

The Female Perspective: What Would Change?
Asked what would happen if women ran the mattress industry, Nicole doesn’t hesitate: “We’d stop talking about specs so much.” Instead, she imagines a consumer-first approach—talking about how products feel, how they change your mornings, and what they actually do for your health. Less jargon, more results.

She’s also candid about the challenges women face in a male-dominated industry, but sees hope in rising authenticity and support among the next generation. Her call? Be yourself, call out bad behavior kindly, and stop pretending everything is normal when it’s not.

Key Takeaways:

Even sleep experts struggle to follow their own advice—honesty and self-awareness matter more than perfection.
Success in the industry is shifting from numbers to relationships, trust, and authentic leadership.
If women led the industry, the focus would move from technical specs to real sleep outcomes and emotional benefits for consumers.

What’s Next?
Ready to rethink your own routines—or just want a dose of real talk from an industry insider? Listen to the full podcast for Nicole’s stories, actionable tips, and the one travel item she never leaves behind.

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The Her Story: Forget the Numbers, Build the Relationships

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